"...and didn't talk to girls."

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Bit of a catch-22 there, don't you think?

If you don't go out of your way to show an interest in them, why do you think they're going to go out of their way to show an interest in you?

And again, the article's definition of "weak" is pretty much oppositional to the overly domineering stereotype.