Watch the following fully charged episode.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LeHakmL6eEc

At about 34m they start discussing tire dust, and also do a quick poll of people who're running fleets of EVs, all of which basically indicate that tire replacement rates are on par with non-EVs.

Further, the weight of a Model 3 (3.8-4K) or Model Y (4.4K) is still less than that of an F-150 (4-5.6K), an Escalade (5.6-6K), or plenty of other ICE trucks and SUVs whose weight for some reason most people don't seem to be that concerned about.